take if from aretha, she knows her shit

dear friends,
today i would like to comment on the topic of respect and bedroom manners. as billy crystal said in When Harry Met Sally, there are low maintenance and high maintenance women. and then there are the women who think they are low maintenance but are really high maintenance and they are the worst kind.

honestly, i am a fairly low maintenance lady (unless of course i only THINK i am low, but am really high) But it would be a hell of a lot easier to be low maintenance if i was getting what i needed out of the relationship to begin with. If men were just a bit more thoughtful, maybe we women wouldn't seem so high maintenance after all. because really, we just want a little respect. and maybe just a little effort on the man's part.

For example, fellas when you don't take the time to get us going in the bedroom, it shows a lack of respect. and then when you get off without taking care of us, it shows a lack of respect. and then when you fall asleep because of the awesome O we gave you, it shows a lack of respect.

Excuse me, but I should not be an afterthought! If you want to keep me around, you better start showing me a little respect because I don't live to please you! sometimes we ladies need pleasing. And that doesn't make us high maintenance! It makes us humans! And we would appreciate it if you chaps would treat us as such!

as Aretha said "R-E-S-P-E-C-T, find out what it means to me!"